Wednesday, January 28, 2009

RELATIVES AND FRIENDS

If I’m interested in finding missing people I can check out search engines like Google and MSN Search…if I’m looking for friends and relatives I can check out People Finder, Classmates.com, Alumni.net, maybe Long Lost Family Bulletin Board.com, Social Security Death Index or even hire a private investigator…

But what if a friend or relative invites me to join FaceBook.com?

Then what?

Is there a relative’s right to privacy?

Should relatives live close by? Distant relatives? Yes, but not too close…

What does one do if a relative is discovered to need protective custody?

Got any tips if relatives ask for loans?

Do you get to see photos of distant relatives?

Should distant relatives living in one of the coldest cities in North America be invited to visit Southern California? 

p.s. Read the last sentence carefully: it says “should they be invited”…

I say yes!!! Absolutely!!!!

 

Sunday, January 25, 2009

MAXIMIZING MEMORY

73% of older adults worry about their memory abilities...
Wordplay can fend off forgetfulness...
ALLITERATE!!!
To better remember a to-do list item, try creating an alliteration...a phrase that contains repeating consonant sounds (like the one above)
Researchers had subjects read poetry and prose both silently and aloud...later participants recalled passages containing alliterative phrases much better than others...they suggest keeping the phrases simple...ones like exercise at eight or dial the doctor may even augment your healthy lifestyle...

I have no idea at what age one becomes an older adult...but I think I are one!!!
Partly from Jan issue of Prevention Mag.

Thursday, January 22, 2009

Bye Bye BarakOBerry

You’ve heard the news by now that the Secret Service is not allowing Barak to carry his personal BlackBerry anymore…poor guy…it’s going to be tough for him… he’ll have a hard time parting with it…the government will let him carry a Smart Phone but with this phone he won't be allowed to send or receive e-mails or text messages without supervision and approval of the secret service…he’s argued that his daughters are the ones who text him all the time…

MAN, I CAN RELATE!!!

I’ve had mine for five years and can’t live without it…I don’t go anywhere without it…Mrs. D has been laughing at me ever since the Barak story broke out…I love being able to read my company and personal e-mails and text messages 24 hours a day…I haven’t started sleeping with my BB yet and don’t plan to, but a few times when I’m expecting a call I’ve taken it with me to the bathroom…I ignore Mrs. D.'s smirky grins...


Friday, January 16, 2009

Chessmates

We’ve been unusually busy this month and had little time to post an overdue blog…Julie puts me to shame with her blogs...she is the best, and on a daily basis too...

But these days I love working a lot...I love working.

I was browsing thru some of my old pictures on computer a few days ago while eating lunch and found one that I consider one of the cutest photos ever of my granddaughters Sunny and Thea playing a serious game of chess in Hawaii over two years ago…Sunny was then around seven and Thea nearly six…I’m not totally sure about the ages…I’ll hear from the Moms…Grandpas have bad memories…

But I DO remember shooting a 73 once at Western Hills Golf Course!

Friday, January 9, 2009

Doom and gloom headlines? Not today

Yesterday I posted a semi-doom and gloom-ish blog…it was somewhat depressing although comments I received via e-mail were not…

But here are some reasons to be thankful for the times we live in...(Portions of this post were taken from Reader’s Digest and my children’s and friends’ comments…

Free Time:

As much as we complain about being busy the average American has more free time than ever…actually five hours a day…you may feel busy doing so many things other than working…

Peace:Wars and terrorist attacks always make headlines but remarkably 6.7 billion people on earth live in peace…

 

A Roomier American Dream:

While some people are struggling to keep their homes the vast majority of      Americans still have plenty to be thankful for when they walk thru their front doors.

The Reader’s Revolution:

In 1970 barely half the people in the world were literate and many could only afford a few books…remember encyclopedias? Now the internet…

Today more than 80% of the world’s people can read! And some of us really do some reading!

 

The Horns of Plenty:

Food is really so plentiful that in many countries the old concerns about hunger have been replaced by worries about obesity…

More Wilderness:

In recent decades America has gained 70 million acres of wilderness which is more than all the land occupied by cities and suburbs…ironically more people than ever can get out to that wilderness because of technology we routinely curse…

The modern car:OK…cars can omit greenhouse gases and create maddening traffic jambs but consider what else they do…Compared with cars in the 70’s today’s cars burn less gallons per mile and emit 98% fewer pollutants…Today’s cars have more creature comforts and fatality rates have gone down sharply…

The Platinum Age of Television:With hundreds of channels today TV producers don’t have to please everyone, so they can appeal to special audiences with sophisticated dramas and do documentaries…When children are happily learning about Mayan engineering on the History and Discovery channels TV is no longer the boob tube…

Memories:

We have digital cameras, VCR’s and e-mails and much more to recall our best personal memories…

We ought to be happy and thankful...

BIRTHDAY BOYS


The older I get the sentimental-er I get...
Periodically my blogger buddies post  pics of their kids and family and they are all cute...
Today I'm posting pics of two of our five grandsons who almost share a birthday...Thatcher 1/07/on the left and Sidney 1/09, Gina and Leesa's sons...
Thatch turned 15 Wednesday and Sid is 3 today...

 

Thursday, January 8, 2009

OUT OF BULLETS? TIME TO GET IN GEAR?

Welcome to the New Year and let’s hope it’s better than 2008!

In the future, like it or not, we’ll all look back and recall the economy, the forced layoffs, huge losses in personal savings and devaluations of property…or worse!

But in spite of these difficulties we have to move ahead and try to make things better…

Here are some bullets I’ve gathered from my industry  recently…these apply to almost everyone:

·        First of all be good to yourself.  See this time as an opportunity to work on personal development.  This could be anything from joining a gym. (don’t just drive by them once a week as I once said, jokingly), Take time to increase your knowledge...We all have room for improvement and taking advantage of so many opportunities around us…

·        Need ideas for setting goals?  How about taking a course in Spanish that may give you a competitive edge?

·        If you’re not into that have you considered stepping up your professional qualifications?  Re-write your resume?

·        If you’re looking for employment try to hand deliver it and not simply faxing it…call possible employers back letting them know you are really serious and would like a second interview…and blah, blah, blah on how to dress for interviews, know what to say and not say, etc.

·        How about helping someone who needs a helping hand, like providing a job reference or offer to review a resume?

·        Stay active in your organizations and clubs.  People trust and depend on people they know…

·        Keep in touch with friends especially ex-customers or clients…

·        Focus on what you can do to improve yourself and your future…

  Get out there and do the best you can…